We call it … acceptance. … but later on we redefine all … and realise it’s more about … compromises. … accepting the compromises as part of the story.
We call it … acceptance. … but later on we redefine all … and realise it’s more about … compromises. … accepting the compromises as part of the story.
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Of course … if we still want to continue … … written by the renowned romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
Imagine you meet the perfect partner.
You’re a beautiful woman … and you believe by a long, long time that you deserve a certain type of profile … as a lover.
And … one day … you meet that person.
He’s intelligent … and a very nice man.
…nice looking … knows how to treat you …
All is perfect … except the fact that he occasionally loves to drink …. and when he does it … it’s all a catastrophe.
He’s actually becoming the opposite of this profile you dreamed about.
You can’t believe it …
That elegant man … is instantly becoming … a jerk.
But you still want to be with him … and you let him go to sleep … and next morning … when you 2 wake up …. you simple pretend nothing happened.
You continue the story … but the scene … with him drunk … is re seen into your mind from time to time.
You try to forget all.
You try to convince yourself that it was just an accident … and seeing him again acting gentle … telling you so, so many beautiful words …. you really believe that it’s all ok.
Bad things … occasionally happens.
It’s normal.
It’s part of life, but if this is only 1% of the story … we should just pretend we don’t see it.
And life continues… and you see him … being, but also acting as that perfect profile you dreamed about.
You remain connected … to him … and to all related to the story … cause you synchronise so, so good together.
You are meant to be … together.
But … unfortunately … one day he start drinking again.
You see him … you tell him … very politely…. to stop it … but he just can’t do it.
He can’t …. because he just loves alcohol.
He has this addiction into his blood … and can’t get rid of it … not even for the sake of the great love story … that you have together.
You realise that you’ll always have to accept this sort of accidents.
You need to accept him as a jerk too.
It’s part of the story .. and all you can do is to pretend that you don’t see that.
… accept the compromise… just to remain connected to him.
But … damn it … it’s all so, so … annoying.
And is nothing to do … once you know the truth … than continue the story … accepting all … or get out of it.
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